April 2013. My three sisters and my Mum were in turmoil. My father was dying and there was nothing any of us could do about it.
His body was starting to rapidly fade, just the way his mind had over the past few years. Mum’s distress was spreading over her like some form of fast growing cancer. I could feel that we were all very close to dropping into an abyss of despair.
Dad had always been a man who was quick to anger, and explosive in his domineering outbursts. Yet, no matter what sort of confusion this had caused my sisters and I for our entire lives, seeing his spirit deplete and his body crumble was a heck of a lot to bear. Losing a parent is a particular brand of hell.
I rang Harry. My friend. My confidante. My mentor.
He was one of the few people in this world who knows my heart. He also fully grasped the mixed bundle of feelings that my father’s presence brought to my life.
Harry arranged to fly in from Tasmania to my home in Melbourne, so we could be together.
By the time he arrived, my father had passed away and I needed Harry more than ever.
You see…Harry has always been in the background of my life. Influencing my decisions. Encouraging me – even before we met.
When I was an unruly, surly 15 years old, ready to fly off the rails and run away from home – at the urging of my sister, Valerie, I read one of Harry’s books. His words soothed me and made me feel less alone. His book spoke to my heart.
Suddenly, I knew what I needed to do with my life. After the first 3 pages of his book, I decided I’d found my calling. I became determined to study psychology at University, so I could gain an insight into how people’s minds worked. And how my mind worked.
Little did I know that many years later, Harry would become my friend.
In 1997, my broker introduced us. I was overjoyed to meet Harry, and we clicked immediately. Harry shared his views about options and candles with me, and our friendship deepened. Those topics are two of my hot buttons, that’s for sure. He bubbled forth his wisdom gathered over a lifetime of being an internationally famous author, a hypnotist, and Australia’s most recognised psychologist to traders. His insights flowed over me like a warm bath of unconditional support.
My desperate yearning for a kind, caring father-like figure was satisfied.
As a result, the pressure I’d applied to my own father dissipated. As adults, our father/daughter relationship improved greatly. I was still wary though. I made sure that I sheltered my children from the abuse I’d received as a child. This was essential.
My children saw the best of their Grandfather, without having to endure fear, or the pain of an estrangement from one of their relatives.
Harry helped me break the chain.
I believe that if you aren’t born into the family you deserve, it just means you drew the short straw in life’s lottery. It’s up to you to choose your own family. You can rebuild the support and care that you should have received, if this was denied to you as a child.
Who have you chosen to be your ‘family’?
Have you made a conscious choice about who you want to associate with, or do people slip into and out of your life by default? Out of those two strategies, I guarantee that only one will help your long term future.
I chose Harry to be a part of my family.
I am indebted to him for the healing he has brought to my life. His belief and care for me take my breath away.
I am honoured to bring you Dr Harry Stanton’s book – Let the Trade Wins Flow.
You need to listen to every word this man has to say. His ability to create life changes in those who follow his work is nothing short of remarkable.
May his words seep into your thoughts and your heart, so that you reap the rewards the market stockpiles for traders who have the discipline to follow their trading plans.
Yes, that’s the first few pages of Harry’s book. I’m so happy that he agreed to allow Chris Tate and I to update it. It’s a definite ‘must read’ if you’re at all interested in kicking down your psychological barriers that stand in the way of top profits.
If you haven’t read it yet, then what are you waiting for?
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